There is a big boy at a young age to have been walking obediently at Kochi parents arranged for him the "high road", particularly obedient, especially filial piety. And finally in his major organs of distribution to the job after one year, but determined to become a street singer. For mothers , he said: "In the past, the mother organization of all good, I only 'implementation' in the negotiations. Now, I finally have the opportunity to live one time, they want to do things, I do not will give up this opportunity. "her mother why her son did not change from the Special Special treason, anxious heart attack twice. However, I do not know whether she want to understand this question: why a child at the age of a sudden go a rebellious path?
It is true that the child has never been necessary support, but support for intervention becomes excessive once. A lot of young mothers from their children a little versed in the world, starting keen on "tight defense", keen to be closely followed to make arrangements, supervision, command, control, some do not on as "a waste of time", "unpromising" with a view to let children less detours. As everyone knows, the result of this excessive intervention from the very beginning, the imprisonment of children to think independently and Inflatable Slides select the capacity of independent development.
Children, though small, is an independent person, but also with independent consciousness, are not accepte Parent excessive intervention. Children are most disgusted with the intervention include:
On the timing of intervention. Jingjing four-year-old girl complained: "Mother to kindergarten every day I, I know that reminders go home as soon as possible my practice, it will not let me play merry-go-round and slides. My good friends are playing, I Inflatable Slides also want to play. can not let Mother always gravely board. "
Selection on the intervention of interest. Children's Palace is responsible for registration of a class of Teacher Qiu said: Every time enrollment, piano, violin, painting, calligraphy and even go all the classes were packed, martial arts, gymnastics, readings, etc. are often too small and open enrollment classes can not. "Reported that a lot of popular classes to children, adults are clearly the wishes of the upper hand. Because a lot of small Inflatable Slides boys enjoy Jackie Chan, Jet Li, martial arts classes want reported, but most of them eventually will have to go learn the piano."
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